our vacation part 2

Taking a walk in an open expansive place is what was needed on day two of our vacation.

The kids are at an age where they prefer peers to parents, rock music to peace and quiet, and their computers take up a lot of their time, even though we are stricter than most parents about screen time. Honestly they weren't super excited to take this mini trip.  But we took them anyway, because we are so mean, lol.  We took them away from distractions and screens and cell phones and the sarcasm of other teenagers. We set up camp in a quiet small house on the rainy side. We played catch with them, and picked fruits, and went out for meals and laughed and watched quality movies. We drove around our old hometown and even saw our old house, pictured above. A house Annabel and Sky lived in before Shawn was part of our family. We drove through our old hometown, a cowboy town with hitching posts along the road in some areas. We breathed the fresh air. It was just what we all needed.

I'm glad to remember that time a few weeks ago, and the peace we all felt.

Soon we will be reacquainted with Sky, who is now living 3000 miles from us. We miss her.

for my children~2016 election

Our attitudes effect everything and each other. Massive fear, anxiety and panic are not going to help anyone. Don't feed off of it. Focus your attention right now on what you love, what you think good is, what you value and hold dear. Have that be in the forefront of your mind.

Never ask any one thing or person to be everything you need them to be. That's like saying "You need to be exactly what I need you to be before I can feel okay!"

Try to appreciate qualities of the people on both sides of the ideas and concerns you are debating.

Love all beings. This is your true nature and if you hate on people, you are out of alignment with your true nature. Our true divine nature loves all beings!

Don't get all caught up in things you can't control. Control what you can control -- where you focus your attention, how you spend your time, the friends you choose, your personal priorities.  Focus on what is good and right and beautiful in the world. There is plenty of it.

Never doubt that there is God's Grace always available to you, flowing in a constant stream. I trust that we are all in very good hands, and we are part of an evolutionary process as humans on this planet at this time. Remember the miracles we have all experienced and seen. Remember that human life is indeed, a miracle.

Decide what you are for!
I know what I am for. I am for kindness, compassion, acceptance of differences, helping those in need, equal rights for all people. I am for taking the high road, having class, and as you all know, manners. I am for being level headed, generous, unselfish, having good boundaries, and being open to all sorts of people.  I am for family values. I am for learning new things every day. I value beginner's mind. We are all learning, all growing, all evolving. People can change and grow for the better. We all know this. We have seen it. Remember the story of the thief who becomes a wise saint after meeting the right person and having his eyes opened.

And never forget - regardless of what many people think or how they behave, you have the ability to be an advocate of your own well being and others' well being. So let your lights shine my dear children. They are bright and beautiful and incredible.

I know you know this all. This is just a reminder.

Love, Mom

upcountry vacation

I have some of my best childhood memories from our family vacations, and in many ways we have recreated that dynamic with our kids. Gary is very generous when it comes to travel and getting away. He loves to take trips, whereas I am more of a homebody. But it is always good to get away, even for a brief time as we found out recently.

There was a fall school vacation so we decided to take the kids on a weekend getaway to another part of our island. Annabel needed a break from college applications. We all took a breather.

We found a cottage for rent on Airbnb and it ended up being great. It was such a sweet time. It was quiet and peaceful out on the country on this huge property where everything grows to gargantuan sizes. We had lots of soft rain and fresh air, fruit trees to pick from, bunnies to visit with, and some nice laughs. One night we watched The Pursuit of Happyness with the kids for the second time. It was a great film. And the next night we watched School of Rock. I love our kids, in all of their feistiness and teen bigness and noisiness and yes, a tad bit of drama.  They are ours and we are grateful to have them around.