gratitude

Thank you to so many people who helped us in the last few months during our transition to a new place.
Thank you Annie for the first house.  Thank you Charlie and Marsha for the current house.  Thank you JP for coming.
You came and I didn't even have to ask.

Thank you Dr. Sitaraman for talking to us, thank you Mike the guitar guy for being in the right place at the right time, thank you Kelley for your flexibility, and Elaine for your crazy laugher. Thank you Mountain Camp Woodside and Panthers Camp for taking good care of Shawn.  Thank you Kai for tutoring Annabel in math for free. Thank you Veronica for your smiling, loving eyes when it was all we could count on. Thank you Ann for being spiritual and wise and patient and Sani for being gentle. Thank you Yvette for your huge heart. Thank you Dr. K and Dr. A and Dr I and Dr. Z and Dr. M and Athena and Ray and Mia.

Thank you Stanford for being there.  From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

Thank you University Avenue for the stimulation and the robot people who entertained us for an afternoon and made my husband smile.
Thank you Country Sun and the art supply store for the surprise day when we needed it most.

Thank you SCU for being flexible.

Thank you new neighbors for making us feel so welcome right away and bringing food and friendliness and a feeling of optimism.  Thank you Gunn and Terman staff for the little things you did to help Annabel and Shawn transition into such big schools.

Thank you for your support -- Mom, Dad, Jill, Tim, Eileen, Janel, Dawn, Terri, Jeri, Cathy, Shuba, Juliette, Annie, Rochelle, Elizabeth, Bess, Radha, Josie, Malik, Monika, Ron, Devidas, Dayamrita, Vishwan.  You are in my heart.

Thank you Ron and Amma for the ashram, now a drive away, and the day we had there that lightened our load.

Thank you God for the beautiful daytime sky and for the sunsets that warmed my heart.
Thank you for cool breezes on hot days and warm sun on cold mornings and mountains in the distance with expansive views when I got to take a walk.  Thank you God, for always taking care of us, and for constantly reminding us that we are not alone.

Thank you Shawn.
Thank you Annabel.
Thank you Gary.

Thank you Sky.

All of you I have mentioned, in your own way...
You are all rock stars.

friendship and the women in my life

my grandma at age 98

My grandmother was one of the kindest, happiest and loving people I knew.
She was a friend to all.  She was the type of person who took in a neighbor's child on weekdays to get him off to school because the child's mother had to leave for work early in the morning.  She gave to everyone, all the time, with no strings attached.

My mother learned from her and showed my sister and I, through example how to be a good friend. She talked to us about friendship.  It was from this springboard that I set my standards for friendship. Lately I have been reflecting on the value of this.

What would I do without my best friends?

I have women in my life that I can turn to when things are really rough.
I can call them and cry and get comforted.
I can see them after a year and pick up where we left off.
I can tell them anything with no judgement.
They try to help me in any way they can.

These women are my tribe.
Most of them don't know one another.
They are scattered all over the globe.

Some are relatives including my mother and sister.

Thank you ladies.  You keep me going.

You know who you are.
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And thank you Grandma and Mom, for the example.  I set the bar high, and yet I still have found some gems in my life.

what i see now that we are somewhere new

Ah California.  Cafes and baseball fields, colleges with architecture both old and new, people dressed strangely, my family talking to robots and laughing and making messes daily in my new kitchen, walks with beautiful expansive views, charm and uniqueness and pastries that almost rival those found on the streets of Paris.

That's what I see.

There's all sorts of new things to behold and experience here.

19, happy birthday my sky

 Little Sky 

Sky now

Wow.  Where did the time go my dear girl???
You are such an amazing young woman.  I am honored and proud and so so love being your mama.
Thank you for coming to me.  You grace my life in so many ways.

You are doing great.  You are such a strong, brilliant, beautiful, intelligent, unique, kind person.  You light up a room when you enter it and you bring so much joy to people.  You have many gifts, and are continuing to discover just what they are.  You don't give up and know how to overcome obstacles.  I wish you love, peace, joy and abundance.  I bless you on this day and every day and I ask God to bless you too.  

Love you Skypie.
Thank you Sky.  Thank you.
xxoo

fourth of july day trip

It was a while ago, this Independence Day trip we took back home.  We went on a hike and then the kids swam in a rapid moving fresh water stream.  The water was so cold, but refreshing. 

forest hike

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This summer while Sky traveled cross country on a retreat with Amma, Gary and I spent some quality time with our youngest two kids...

Of course we took to the forest.

And yes, Annabel and I frolicked in the meadow.